Sharon and Amber, my deepest sympathy goes out to you both. You have been through so much recently, now is the time lean on each other. I loved Terry, he was such a big part of my life for so long, and not a day will go by when I don't shed a tear or smile at a memory of him. His suffering and pain are gone, please allow that to comfort you. Allow yourselves to grieve and cry when you need to. I know all too well the pain of burying a loved one, so please, please know I am here for both of you...even if you just want someone to hand you tissues as you cry. I love you both.